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I know that him getting a court order and seeing the kids through a third party is the smart thing to do but I'm scared of what he will do if it came to it. He is very manipulative and nasty. My biggest fear is that he takes the kids back to his country and I'll never see them again. Record as much of his behavior as possible tell the court how he is and what he is enough time had passed that the legal system should be aware of the Narcissist by now.
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